Suprise............Party.

It was Friday. Friday the 30Th of January. What was this day you ask. Well I will tell you it was my first surprise birthday party! Yes in the 18 years, 5 months and 2 days i have been alive it is my first surprise birthday party. Those of you that know me may know that my birthday is in September, yes I said September, the 25 to be exact. And those of you who don't know me very well now know {just FYI for this year.} Well anyways I may have lost some of you so, Yes my birthday is in September. Yes I just had my Birthday Party {In January.} And yes I know it was 4 months and 5 days late. I would like to say and think that it was so I would be more surprised, but the sad truth is it wasn't. You see my Grandfather died around the time of my birthday this past year which caused complications with my birthday. I wasn't angry or mad or even upset I just felt well alone. My mom and dad were gone all the time dealing with stuff at my grandparents house, my sister worked and my brother well hes never around {hes going through that stupid for one girl stage} And as for my other brothers and sisters they have there own families now. I spent my birthday with my boyfriend but there's something about your family being around that makes a difference. Now don't get me wrong, I got birthday hugs, kisses, cards, presents and cake but no one was around to see my open the cards and presents or blow out the candles. I repetitively told my mom and dad not to worry about it I understood but I know they still felt bad, I'm their baby and I turned 18 that was a big deal. So to my surprise Friday night I walked through the house door to a SURPRISE! And loads of family members. Tears welded up in my eyes and the biggest smile in my life spread across my face.
That was a birthday to remember.
Even now as I think about it I still think it was the best Birthday Ever.
So keep in mind even though you may think no one remembers or cares your family loves you and will never forget you no matter what happens, and don't jump on things right away give it time it will happen.