Thoughts, Feelings and other Mental Notes

Ahh life. What to say about it. Can we put a title on it? Can we make genneral statements? Can one person really even say what to expect? Would you be able to tell someone new coming into the world what to do and what to say.....how to live the perfect life? The thing is, is life is full of opinions. Like what I am saying now is my opinion, I am one person in this wide world, but opinions change live's and if I could even make one person think about there life change some things and carry this conversation with sombody else, that's good enough for me. So here I go.

I am one person and here is my opinion, my opinion on life. Talk to your Parents tell them what you need to say, they weren't so different than you once. Don't take Grandparents for granted their there for extra love and attention take advantage of that before there not there anymore. As far as Brothers and Sisters go, well........ Forgive & Forget. Forget stupid fights over things like who's shirt it was, who was sitting there first, who had control of the remote or who's turn it is to do dishes. God gave them to us to love and to be there for comfort. Don't be a fool in love. Don't assume that the one you love loves you back and that they will always be there. When you get someone good hold on to them. Treat people with respect. Be kind to everyone, just because the girl next to you wears the same jeans 4 times a week and the boy across the hall has no friends doesn't make them bad. Don't Be afraid to show your feelings, Cry and Laugh and Smile when you feel the need. Speak out, And most of all Don't lose sight, in your plans, your goals, your faith or who You are. People Can never take who you are away from you.

So....... Thats How I feel One Person In This World, One Person Who Felt The Need To Share Her Opinions And Speak Out.

Suprise............Party.

It was Friday. Friday the 30Th of January. What was this day you ask. Well I will tell you it was my first surprise birthday party! Yes in the 18 years, 5 months and 2 days i have been alive it is my first surprise birthday party. Those of you that know me may know that my birthday is in September, yes I said September, the 25 to be exact. And those of you who don't know me very well now know {just FYI for this year.} Well anyways I may have lost some of you so, Yes my birthday is in September. Yes I just had my Birthday Party {In January.} And yes I know it was 4 months and 5 days late. I would like to say and think that it was so I would be more surprised, but the sad truth is it wasn't. You see my Grandfather died around the time of my birthday this past year which caused complications with my birthday. I wasn't angry or mad or even upset I just felt well alone. My mom and dad were gone all the time dealing with stuff at my grandparents house, my sister worked and my brother well hes never around {hes going through that stupid for one girl stage} And as for my other brothers and sisters they have there own families now. I spent my birthday with my boyfriend but there's something about your family being around that makes a difference. Now don't get me wrong, I got birthday hugs, kisses, cards, presents and cake but no one was around to see my open the cards and presents or blow out the candles. I repetitively told my mom and dad not to worry about it I understood but I know they still felt bad, I'm their baby and I turned 18 that was a big deal. So to my surprise Friday night I walked through the house door to a SURPRISE! And loads of family members. Tears welded up in my eyes and the biggest smile in my life spread across my face.
That was a birthday to remember.
Even now as I think about it I still think it was the best Birthday Ever.
So keep in mind even though you may think no one remembers or cares your family loves you and will never forget you no matter what happens, and don't jump on things right away give it time it will happen.